Have you seen this caption before?
It was a popular church event title that went viral at a point on social media. Even though a lot of people took it for a joke and made fun of it, it is also a fact that many people also attended that programme. In fact, there are a lot of people who have covertly attached their existence to getting married. While I'm not playing down on getting married, it is important to note that desperation will only attract the wrong person to you.
Have you been so hungry that ijebu garri looked like fried rice to you? In fact at that point you might not mind eating something below your normal standard. That's what happens when we're desperate, we settle for anything. And I tell you this with every sense of humility, it is better not be married at all than to marry the wrong person- a lot of divorcées will attest to this. Someone anonymous said "It is better to wait long than to marry wrong".
Lack of marriage does not hinder the fulfilment of purpose. So you can be single and still fulfil purpose. This has been seen throughout history. Don't allow anyone make you feel less of yourself because you don't have a relationship or yet to be married. God can still use you whether married or unmarried.
And just a word for custodians of the " biological clock", can we please just ease the pressure on people who are yet to be married? You don't want to know what this pressure has pushed many into.
And the sooner we come to the fact that not everyone will be married, the better our world will become.
And you know what?
The reason a lot of people are yet to discover or attract their spouse is because they are yet to discover themselves. Everything you're trying to get on the outside, starts with you on the inside.
I don talk plenty already, lemme comman be going.
I value you!
Miracle O. Ihuoma
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