YOU WILL TURN OUT LIKE YOUR PARENT
Lol....I can imagine the look on the faces of a lot of people reading this right now. Well....the title was used to get your attention and is conditionally true. It is in no way a prophesy or curse. This is actually word from knowledge and not word of knowledge.
If you're the son of Mark Zukerberg or Dangote you might want to say amen to the supposed prophesy but for the large part of my audience reading this who might not be in that class, this might sound like a curse. But as much as you don't like it doesn't change the validity or authenticity if nothing is done.
A man by the name Joseph Stalin was at a time the president of Russia,he wasn't a good president. He was a tyrant, a dictator and an authoritarian leader who ended up killing millions of innocent people. I'm sure you are really mad at this guy right now,wondering what kind of a person he is. But before you criticize him too much,let's take a stroll to his background:
Joseph Stalin grew up in a home where he saw his dad beat up himeself and his mum almost everyday, he saw his dad drink to stupor every night and of course that entered his subconscious and formed a major part of his belief system and values. And by the time he attained a leadership position, there was no other way e knew to lead than to be a dictator like his dad. I'm sure he never really wanted to become like his father but we ultimately reproduce who we are not what we like.
In the same way, a lot of people will reproduce what they have seen their parents do over the years in their own families as relating to marriage and parenting. They might want to do it better but you don't reproduce what you like,you reproduce who you are. And most times,this reproduction happens in good measure,press down, shaking together and running over so that the glory of the later house is greater than that of the former. Lol.
Before you blame your parents too much,take out time and ask them how their own parents lived and behaved and you would most likely discover that they are just at best advanced versions of their parents. And if you check yourself well,you might discover that you're already turning out that way and it's not your fault because,the gates to the subconscious mind are the ears and the eyes. So whatever you constantly keep hearing and seeing will become a major stake holder in your mind and will by default reproduce itself if not uninstalled.
The power of sight cannot be overestimated,that was why Jacob of ancient history could only change the skin colour of his master's animals by getting them to look at what he wanted them to become when they mated. And that is why in the new covenant in scriptures, we are told to continually behold the word as in a glass for total transformation. What you are seeing and have seen is definitely what you are producing today consciously and unconsciously.
Is there hope for those of us who have seen almost all our lives negative parenting,marriage and all kinds?
Everything you've seen your parents do about life,marriage and parenting will remain in it's state of rest until it is acted upon by an impressed or external force. This is the reason boys who have seen their fathers smoke over time end up as smokers, it is the reason ladies end up in abusive relationships because they have never seen/experienced true love at home so can't decipher when they see one. This is the reason a very high percentage of people from dysfunctional homes end up in all forms of delinquencies.
One strange thing about this is that it doesn't work by rejecting it and saying God forbid alone. In fact the more angry you are about it,the more tendency it is for you to repeat it. O yea,because the anger will serve as a reinforcement to the behaviour. And many times in anger,we project who we truly are; we attack what we are struggling with. It is called PROJECTION in psychology.
So what's the way out?
Some persons might need more intense therapy but many many would be delivered by just looking for a new MODEL. Yes! Look for an 'adopted' father,mother or family that models what you truly want to become. Expend more of your energy and emotions towards your adopted family or father than you do towards your mainstream family. This family could come in form of a group,an association,mentoring and the likes but make sure you detach your self from your existing family in terms of the attitudes and behaviours you wish to relinquish.
As you expose yourself to the desired,you will subconsciously start dropping anything toxic you have picked from where you are coming from. This I think is one of the high points of mentoring. This I think is one of the reasons you should not forsake the assembly of the righteous.
This is so powerful,it could change your life forever!
You can shoot me a mail if you want us to talk about this in more details.
I value you!
Miracle O. Ihuoma
