SO YOU DON'T WANT TO JOIN A UNIT

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I've decided to start sharing my thoughts on Life and Relationships with people as they come up. Some of these thoughts might be radical and might seem alien to some of us but please do well to consider them before debunking or criticizing.

So yesterday someone met me and asked why I haven't joined a unit in my local assembly, and I told him I wasn't sure I wanted to join but I'd consider it. And then he said "the earlier you start being useful to God the better...." And I picked it up from there as I did not allow him finish. I immediately told him that my usefulness to God is not judged by my joining a unit in my local assembly. My usefulness and your usefulness to God is directly and inversely proportional to your usefulness to man. I further told him that what we do within the four walls of our local assemblies is not as important as what we do outside those walls. We'll be judged more by our contribution to humanity than the unit we joined in our local assembly.

The purpose of our local assembly is to equip us for the work of the ministry/service. To who?  To humanity of course. So any local assembly that doesn't empower or enable you to serve humanity does not qualify to be a church. There is a difference between the work of the ministry and ministry work. Maybe joining a unit in your local assembly is ministry work while the work you do outside its four walls for the furtherance of the kingdom is the work of the ministry
An usher in a local assembly is not doing more of God's work than an business man providing ten people with jobs.

The major issue is that we've overtime separated spiritual work and secular work. So you see someone go for a vigil and come to his place of work dizzy and becomes ineffective throughout the day. You see another one reading his/her bible at work and doesn't even know when a client comes. But is this truly what God wants? I'm sure you know the answer. You see a chorister in the choir who thinks she is more valuable to God than an Asa. But these are all religion! And religion is the greatest enemy of Christianity.

Every work is spiritual if it is fulfilling Gods will and advancing the kingdom. Another bone of contention is what is the kingdom. Even if you don't know what the kingdom is, just know its is not the fall walls of your church- that's also an instrument God is using to advance His kingdom. The same way he could use the media, economy, politics ,entertainment, education etc.

When God gave Adam the work of a gardener in genesis, he never called it spiritual or secular work. So let's see everything we do as long as it’s in line with God's will as spiritual work if we have to call it anything. This will even help us to put in more excellence in our jobs and work knowing that they are all unto God!

Selah

I value you!

GIRLFRIEND VS WIFE

                



Its a wonderful day!

People think you only become a wife when you get married but you can actually be a wife before you get married that's why it is called "wife material".

Girlfriends are everywhere,littered all over the streets...wives are scarce. And that's why you have to search to find wives but you don't have to do that to find girlfriends,in fact sometimes they find you.

He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God. He that finds a girlfriend,I don't know what he has found and I don't know if he will obtain favour from the Lord.

Wives help you to save and invest your money...girlfriends help you to spend it

Girlfriends help you to gratify the pleasure of the present...wives help you to secure the future.

Girlfriends ask you how much you have in your account. Wives ask you how much vision you have in your mind.

A girlfriend opens her breast and body to impress you. A wife displays the intelligence in her brain and you have no choice than to be impressed.

A wife multiplies whatever you giver her. A girlfriend diminishes what you give her and returns for more

Guys strive to marry a wife and not a girlfriend...ladies strive to be a wife and not a girlfriend.

Please note that girlfriend used in this article is contextual.

Watch out for Boyfriend Vs Husband

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BOYFRIEND VS HUSBAND

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You don't become a husband when you get married,in fact it is being a husband that should qualifies you for marriage.

A boyfriend sees himself as superior to a woman,a husband sees a woman as God's image with the same Spirit of God in her

A boyfriend uses his physical strength to abuse women,a husband uses his strength to protect them

Boyfriends don't add any value to the relationship. Husbands make you better than they met you,that's why they are called 'bridegroom'

Boyfriends take advantage of your vulnerability. Husbands help you work on your weaknesses

The only thing boyfriends have to donate is their sperm. Husbands offer vision,direction,protection,provision etc

Boyfriends are scattered all over the streets. Husbands are rare,no wonder the scripture says "A faithful man who can find?"

Boyfriends have girlfriends but husbands stick to one wife,they understand the discipline of faithfulness and have learnt to keep that thing in between their legs in check.

Husbands have more to offer than biscepts,tricepts and money. And at the same time they make providing for their family a priority

Boyfriends are liabilities. Husbands are assets.

Are you a boyfriend or a husband?

Guys strive to be a husband. Ladies make sure you marry a husband and not a boyfriend.

Please note that 'boyfriend' used in this article is contextual

I value you!