The same way we have killer diseases such as cancer, HIV/AIDS and so on. We also have killer diseases of the soul, of which unhealthy relationships is an integral part of.
One thing people have failed to recognize is that relationships play a vital role in our lives; it determines between success and failure, poor and rich, it determines our ultimate destiny. It either makes or mars us.
Show me your friend and I will not only tell you who you are, I ill also predict what you ill become. If you were asked to write down the seven closest people to you, who would they be? Will they look like the future you desire? If they do not then they are not worthy to be on that list.
Anthony Robbins a professional speaker and psychologist wanted to become a billionaire, at that time he was already a millionaire. After like one year of setting that goal, he never attained it, so he decided to seek mentorship from a billionaire. On getting there, the billionaire mentors asked him if his seven closest friends were billionaires and guess what? They weren’t. So he decided to change his friends to billionaires. After he did in less than one year he became a billionaire. That’s the power of relationships. Therefore I make bold to tell you that some relationships are vision blockers and vision blurters.
Relationship is not by force, it is by choice. One thing I have come to realize is that intuitively we know those relationships that are unhealthy in our lives- the best thing you can do to those relationships is to break them. For instance, any relationship that is built on sex should be broken without a second thought. There is no need for painting the truth.
Any relationship that is generally abusive either (physical, verbal or sexual abuse) is unhealthy and should therefore be broken. It is only on this planet I see men beat up ladies and call it love; they say love cannot grow without a fight. That is a lie from the pit of hell, which is immaturity in its highest level. Cut off if you like your life.
Love is not symbiotic i.e. give and take but relationship should be. Any relationship that is not symbiotic is most times parasitic. Any relationship that is not improving you is not worth it. Quit!
Let him or her that has an ear hear. But please any relationship that you want to break shouldn’t be done arrogantly but with wisdom. Because you might need to pass through a door again you shut violently. Be wise!
2 comments:
That's a nice one, every parasitic relationship is not worth keeping
That's a nice one, every parasitic relationship is not worth keeping
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